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more celebrities should just be like rihanna in regards to hate

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I think the “women are mysterious” thing can also come from:
1) Women actually being quite clear, but not telling men what they want to hear.  ”She said she doesn’t want to talk to me?  So many mixed messages and confusing signals!”
2) Women not having cheat codes.  ”I tried being nice, and she didn’t have sex with me.  I tried being an asshole, and she didn’t have sex with me.  Come on, there’s got to be some kind of solution to this puzzle!”
3) Women not being a hive mind.  ”First a woman told me that she likes guys with big muscles.  Then the very next day a woman told me she thinks muscles aren’t attractive at all.  Make up your mind, women!”
4) An individual woman doing something confusing, and instead of asking “why is she doing this now?” men ask “why do women always do this?”

5) Women sometimes don’t say what they’re really thinking/feeling because society has taught us that certain emotions and reactions are unacceptable (i.e. you must be nice to men even when they’re creeps because man feelings are delicate and must be protected at all costs).
6) Women sometimes don’t say what they’re really thinking/feeling because we’re used to our thoughts and emotions being invalidated and can learn to invalidate them ourselves.
7) You didn’t even fucking ask. 

8) You see women as NPCs instead of people, so when they act like people you’re surprised and wonder how such a sophisticated NPC can exist and what algorithms drive it, instead of interacting with her as a human being.


Um, the reason are seen as mysterious creatures is because our entire lives we have been told that boys and girls are different, we have been told that women do this and men do that, we have been told how women are supposed to act and think and how men are supposed to act and think, and all of that conditioning just erects giant walls in between men and women and it keeps them from realizing that we are ALL human beings, we are just a little different. Same thing happens with people from different countries. They get told how those people are and they forget that they are just human beings instead of caricatures- Mod Helga

How about people are seen as mysterious because a lot our society sucks at communication because of the fear of rejection and the implied requirement of bravado in order to succeed at life, regardless of what set of bits is in your pants?There has always been and likely always will be some mystery to the inner workings of the minds of other people, even between friends, but that mystery grows exponentially when sex and romance is tossed into the mix.Add in the mystique of myth and legend passed down from parent to child - again, regardless of sex/gender about the wants, needs, and desires of the opposite, and you have a volatile fuel for misunderstanding and miscommunication.I’m not suddenly capable of empathizing with women or communicating with me because I have magical homo-powers. It’s because I don’t have the tension that breeds anxiety or the expectation of duplicity because of whatever bullshit warnings my parents and friends passed on to me.I’m fucking terrible with men, though and my ‘subtle’ is actually more along the lines of complete and idiotic buffoon or unnoticed innuendo because it’s with men that I have that tension.It’s nothing to do with some cliche and supposedly ‘clever’ comparison to NPC’s or cheat codes in motherfucking games.It has to do with how well people, as a whole, can communicate.

Well said. Communication is right there. And my social anxiety makes that extremely hard. And any time I tried to see someone as a possible romance person I messed everything up and was too nervous. If I see them as people, it all works great. My aceness might help a bit there not being nervous around either sex because of attraction issues. I also try to look through everyone’s eyes. And, I feel like I have a bit of both stereotypical genders in me. I have played mind games before. I rely heavily on my emotions. But I have also pushed all of my feelings aside to protect others and stuff like that. - Mod Helga
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I see London I see France. Wow. they’re both 486 miles away from eachother. That’s a long way. I have great eyesight.

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